As moms, we strive to raise responsible, capable, and independent children. Teaching our kids to contribute to household chores not only lightens our workload but also imparts valuable life skills. By assigning age-appropriate tasks, we empower our children to take ownership of their responsibilities and foster a sense of pride in their accomplishments. However, sometimes it’s hard to know where to start with chores and what your kids are capable of. We’ve compiled this list of chores, divided out by age group, for toddlers, elementary-aged kids, middle schoolers, and high schoolers.
Toddlers (Ages 2-4):
Put away toys in designated bins or shelves.
Help set the table (with non-breakable items).
Wipe up spills with a damp cloth or sponge (under supervision).
Assist in sorting laundry (sock matching, color sorting).
Water plants with a small watering can.
Dust low surfaces with a feather duster.
Help feed and care for pets (with close supervision).
Help make the bed (pull up sheets, fluff pillows).
Assist in simple food preparation (washing fruits, tearing lettuce).
Elementary-Aged Kids (Ages 5-10):
Make the bed independently.
Set and clear the table.
Sort and fold laundry (sock pairing, folding clothes).
Put away groceries (non-breakable items).
Empty small trash cans around the house.
Sweep or vacuum floors.
Wipe down kitchen counters and bathroom surfaces.
Help with meal preparation (stirring, measuring ingredients).
Take care of personal hygiene (brushing teeth, bathing).
Feed and care for pets (cleaning cages, filling bowls).
Middle Schoolers (Ages 11-13):
Assist with meal planning and grocery shopping.
Do laundry (including loading and unloading the washing machine).
Wash dishes and load/unload the dishwasher.
Dust and polish furniture.
Vacuum and mop floors.
Take out the trash and recycling.
Clean bathrooms (toilet, sink, mirror).
Help with gardening and yard work.
Assist in organizing and decluttering spaces.
Prepare simple meals or snacks.
High Schoolers (Ages 14-18):
Plan and cook meals independently.
Clean and organize the refrigerator and pantry.
Wash and wax the family car.
Manage personal finances (budgeting, saving).
Babysit younger siblings or neighbors’ children.
Assist with home repairs (under supervision).
Grocery shopping and running errands.
Do yard work (mowing, raking leaves).
Clean windows and mirrors.
Assist with budgeting and household bill management.
Encouraging our children to participate in age-appropriate chores not only fosters a sense of responsibility and self-reliance but also cultivates essential life skills. By tailoring the tasks to their abilities, we empower our little helpers to contribute meaningfully to the household and instill values that will benefit them in the long run. Remember, while these chore suggestions are a great starting point, it’s important to adjust them based on your child’s individual capabilities and interests. Let’s work together to raise a generation of independent and capable individuals!
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